by Lola Elle | Aug 22, 2023 | Intimacy
We all want to be “ravished” by our partners… But are we even available to be ravished? Do we have the capacity to let that energy in? Are we willing to be swept away? Listen to the audio version of this post:...
by Lola Elle | Aug 4, 2023 | Intimacy
Monogamy is sometimes regarded as an archaic relationship paradigm, especially when compared to what are often billed as more “evolutionary” paths of intimacy such as polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), or open relationships. But, as was recently pointed out by...
by Lola Elle | Sep 3, 2013 | Intimacy
The sun kissed our faces as Tiger and I wandered through a park recently. We had no destination in particular and were just enjoying each others’ company on a hillside when a bus pulled into the park below us. The park was otherwise empty, so the bus easily pulled at...
by Lola Elle | Mar 22, 2013 | Intimacy
I had it all planned out… The airport surprise to top all surprises. Little did I know that some things I learned about love would be rewritten. My long distance love (AKA “Tigre”) was finally coming home and I wanted it to be a homecoming he’d...