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How to Stop People-Pleasing
Highly sensitive empaths need to let go of needing everyone to understand and like you — here’s how to stop people-pleasing.
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Lola Elle is a sacred space designer, stylist, spiritual mentor, and wellness retreat leader based in San Diego, California. When she’s not writing, supporting clients, or designing, you’ll find her on her mat or adventuring with her two kids and aviator husband.
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How to Know if You’re Gaslighting Yourself: Part 1
How can you “live your truth” if you don’t even know what your truth is? You can’t live authentically until you understand how it feels when you’re lying to yourself.
Dare to be Forgettable
Instead of wondering how to be memorable, can you dare to be forgettable instead? How your inevitable disappearance serves your Sacred Work by setting you free to live your TRUTH…
7 Signs your Mentor is a (Bad) Witch
Looking for a magical mentor? Avoid working with a bad apple: the following 7 signs you’re working with a Bad Witch arose from experience. If they are happening to you now, read on for suggestions of what to do next.
Your clients don’t need you (why that’s a good thing)
In an era of co-dependency, what happens when our clients don’t *need* us anymore? Is it the end of our businesses? Or could it be the beginning of real Work with our tribe? Read on…
The Best Coffee and Cacao Recipe
Good coffee is great medicine, especially when you add these sacred ingredients to your brew.
Man-Made IS Natural
In eco/woo circles we tend to vilify man-made stuff and humans in general. We put animals on a pedestal, we put down men; we rage against governments and fight to save the rainforest. But humans ARE animals; men are just as important, valid, and worthy as women; and humankind has collectively created the systems that we despise. We are complicit.