It’s Not Impostor Syndrome

It’s Not Impostor Syndrome

Have you heard of the term “impostor syndrome”? It refers to people who feel like they’re inadequate at something that they’re doing despite their success. But, “Impostor” means “to endeavor to make something out of those they deceive.” You already know that is the...
Ancestral Healing for Racism and Generational Trauma

Ancestral Healing for Racism and Generational Trauma

What could an ancestral altar have to do with racism? Not much, it seems at first glance. But, I have a working theory that unequivocally connects them… Ancestral Healing: Before I dive into that, let’s travel back in time. Imagine for a moment, that you are plopped...
Ancestors, Heal My Heart

Ancestors, Heal My Heart

I am on a quest to heal my heart from white shame. Which, ironically, must come from embracing (and no longer denying, suppressing, shaming, or making superior) my body’s white skin. After all, healing doesn’t come from denying what is, but from...
Your clients don’t need you (why that’s a good thing)

Your clients don’t need you (why that’s a good thing)

How does it make you feel when I tell you that your clients don’t NEED you or your services? Scared? Liberated? Relieved? Worried? It’s a complex idea to process… especially when our culture’s entire economy is based on poking at pain points,...